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About
the Couple
Kelly
and Piyush married on July 20, 2002 in Chambersburg,
Pennsylvania. Kelli is employed by DC Public Schools and
is teaching Kindergarten and first grade English as a
Second Language (ESL) at Cleveland Elementary. PJ is in
the Goel family construction business.
How
We Met
"We met by
chance, thanks to a mutual friend, in the freezer food
section at a grocery store. We instantly developed an
amazing friendship. We would both go back and forth- one
of us liking the other more, during the first two years
until we were both in love. By the time we realized we
were in love Kelli had received a Rotary International
Ambassadorial Scholarship to study and live abroad in
Buenos Aires, Argentina. This was a very tough time due
to our long distance relationship. We are now experts on
flying as air couriers to South America and are well
versed on all aspects of internet telecommunication.
"We
knew we were meant for each other when we survived the
full re-construction of our townhouse while we lived in
it, and surviving a year apart. We endured miserable
living conditions together and survived. Through it all
- we are thrilled to be married to each other."
The
Proposition: 2nd December, 2001
PJ had the ring for about a month and had only told few
people of his plans. He decided to propose to Kelli
minutes before her birthday. PJ had an entire spiel of
what he was going to say, but was so nervous that he
only had the time to utter "Will you marry
me?" 30 seconds later, in shock, seeing the ring in
the box, Kelli said "Yes".
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Kelli
wearing a gold-color lehenga for her hindu
wedding |
PJ
in ethnic attire leading the baraat |
Our
Wedding
"We decided to have a
short engagement period (seven and a half months) and to
get married on July 20, 2002. Our hardest choice was to
decide how to get married, and to convince both families
that the wedding would respect both religions. Kelli is
Christian and P.J. is Hindu. The weddings of both
religions are quite different but in many facets are the
same, the similarities being they both involve marriage,
family and friends.
We
decided to have the event in Chambersburg, Pa., Kelli's
hometown. With the groundwork laid out the harder work
began- the decision on whether to have one wedding, two
weddings, or a combined wedding. An event over one or
two days or on different weekends and finally whether or
not to just elope (just kidding, but we did feel that
way sometimes). This was our hardest decision as it
required a lot of patience and gentle persistence to
tell our families that an interfaith marriage can be a
plus and not a negative. So we finally decided to
perform the Hindu ceremony and luncheon in the morning
and the Christian wedding and reception in the evening,
all on the same day. |