About the Couple
Kashmera Shah is born and bred in Mumbai. She lived in
the Gujarati-centric-Girgaum area and studied at Jai Hind college before embarking on her
modeling career. She has also acted in a number of Hindi films including 'Yes Boss,' 'Pyar
To Hona Hi Tha,' 'Jungle,' 'Saazish,' 'System' and 'Janasheen.' California based Brad
Listermann was the owner of a highly successful Investment Bank.
"It all began on
Kiss.com"
Says
Kashmera, "A friend of mine was on kiss.com. I had just broken up with my boyfriend
and I was interested in what my friend was looking up so as a fun thing we wrote to people
who were between the age group of 29-35 years as we felt they would write back seriously.
I found four guys, one of whom was Brad. All the guys replied the next day, except for
Brad who replied four days later and thus began our relationship: from email communicators
to MSN buddies, internet partners to husband-wife."
We
chatted for almost 24 hours
Says Brad: "When we started chatting we were not thinking of marriage as we were in
that phase of life where we didn't believe in marriages. But after chatting on MSN, we
realized we hit it off very well. One day we just couldn't stop chatting and
chatted for almost 24 hours. In fact, at that time we were dating other people but we just
couldn't stop thinking about each other. We soon realized something was happening so we
broke off from the people we were seeing. Two weeks after the day we had this marathon
conversation, we met in Seattle."
The
magical meeting
Says Kashmera: "We met at a hotel lobby in Seattle. I took my friend along, as I was
nervous about meeting him alone. I can never forget that day. It was all so beautiful and
perfect. We were both dressed at our best, and we both instantly recognized each other in
the crowd. We spent the next day together and he proposed to me by the side of the
road". Adds Brad: "It was such a romantic adventure. I was driving and stopped
the car and told her we could take any one of the two roads before us -- one led to
California and the other to Las Vegas." Says Kashmera: "I knew it was all a big
risk but I also knew it was now or much later. So I took a deep breath and said 'lets do
it'."
We
got married in Jeans
"We went to Vegas and got married. Brad was wearing a blue jeans and a red-shirt and
I was wearing white pedal pushers, a blue corset and channel glasses. While we wed, I wept
and told Brad that I never thought I'd be marrying with no witnesses that I know of. He
replied, 'don't worry I will give you a dream wedding next year'. Exactly a year later, on
August 30, 2001 we remarried as per Hindu and Christian rituals at the beautiful Bellagio
in Las Vegas. As Brad promised, it was a dream wedding, I wore a stunning red bridal gown
and we wed amidst the fountains and thirty of our good friends."
"My
Bollywood Bride"
Kashmera and Brad's latest project is "My Bollywood Bride". Co-produced and
co-written by Brad, Kashmera is acting in the movie along with Hollywood's sex-symbol
Jason Lewis of the popular TV series 'Sex and the City'. 'My Bollywood Bride' tells the
story of Alex, a former wind surfing pro, turned adventure novelist, who meets and
romances Bollywood star Reena, while she is on a vacation in California. (Brad says the
film is loosely based on his romance with Kashmera). Torn by her blossoming feelings for
Alex and her Indian family values, Reena returns home without saying goodbye. Alex,
distraught by the turn of events, decides to follow her to Mumbai and win her back.
The
Listermanns India Connection
Says Brad: "Thanks to this venture where both of us are involved, Kashmera can pursue
her career in films and we can both spend equal time between India, a place I love and our
home in California." |